Friends for a Lifetime or a Season.

Am I a good friend? Absolutely. I know this now. A while ago, not so sure.

During my period of what I call my 'disconnect' I wasn't being a good friend to myself, and thus don't believe I was being a good friend to others. I was present, and superficially engaged, but not really connected. I subconsciously and consciously created distance between some people people. Some of that was perhaps not wanting to be truly 'seen'. A lot, in fact most of the reason there had been a disconnect with some of my "friends for s lifetime", was out of judgement. Judgement of myself and judgement of them.

When I finally had a look in to me, and saw what I saw I was both exhilarated and appalled. Now, thankfully I have been able to connect with me, and connect authentically with my friends for a lifetime. I know with every ounce of my being who those people are, and I cherish every one of them.

I intend on having many other lifetime friends, but I accept that some are just for a season. All friends however, come for a reason!

Thank you my friends...all of you!
xo